Well, I have embarked into the third trimester and the latest level of frustration. Don't get me wrong- I am so proud to be carrying two tiny miracles but I have been so independent and active for years and staying in bed so much and staying inactive is hard. Mostly mentally but also physically. I easily pull muscles in my neck just due to sleeping or laying wrong. I do see a chiropractor a few times a week but this far along, I am being lazy and going less. I don't wanna get ready to go. Ugh. I am whining. I know.
I am now 34 1/2 weeks along and the twins are doing great. They are beautiful as ever. It is amazing that a year ago we tripped into fertility treatments and went down the following road:
- trying to conceive 8, 9, 10 years
- attempting to adopt outside of using an expensive agency to only come out of it with horror stories
- being told we could not have children together due to my husband shooting blanks (azoospermia)
- finding out he had sperm after all, just needed a biopsy to get them out
- planning our IVF and succeeding after 1 vigorous round
- finding out we were expecting, not only expecting but having Boy/Girl Twins!
So, here we are. Ready for our family to grow by 4 beautiful, cute, little feetsies! We have gotten the nursery ready, had our unisex baby shower and had a few uneventful visits to the Labor & Delivery department at Methodist Women's Hospital. We have decided to have the twins together in one room for the time being to help them feel most comfortable since they have been 'womb-mates' for their fist 9 months in-utero.
I have been experiencing those fun Braxton Hicks contractions for a few months now. They have gotten stronger this week. Well, so strong on Monday night that they became consistent for the first time and I actually thought I was going in labor. I had a perinatal and OB appointment earlier that day finding out that my cervix was soft, 38" so measuring 38 weeks for a singleton mama, no dilation, Sebastian way head down and Mila is booty down. When I went to Labor and Delivery that evening I had contractions consistently for 2 hours (ended up being a total of 3 hours), going from 8 min 55 sec down to 5 min 56 seconds apart. I get hooked up to the monitor and they were just done. Ugh. Seriously. Am I losing my mind. So, I have come to the conclusion they are just more of the Braxton Hicks contractions beings they stopped and were pain free- just very hard and tight. It was just frustrating. I thought I might actually have a little excitement but ended up feeling a little silly. The pain between my legs is insanely painful at times - my pelvis. Sometimes I cannot walk much till there is a little change in the babies position or a little time passes. I have graduated into the situation of riding in wheel chairs
(thanks for pushing me around Hobby Lobby, Mom!) and electric carts at grocery stores.
So, here I am two days later chilling out in bed with Kanye West filling my bedroom with tunes and Young & the Restless playing quietly in the background. My two Cavalier King Charles Spaniels watching my every move. Yep, this is my life right now. I am so fortunate to be home and carrying two precious miracles that I truly never believed I would ever be lucky enough to carry myself. I already love my babies so much that I am a little impatient to meet them.
So that leads us to our birth plan. On November 27th, 2012 at 1:30pm we will go ahead and do a quick amniocentesis (wish me luck) to see if the lungs are mature enough to do a cesarean section the next day at noon. Yep, we are on the books ladies and gentlemen. I am told that we will only do one poke and in Sebastian's sac to see if he is ready since boys lungs normally mature slower. I am excited yet scared. I have made the decision with my perinatal specialist to do a c-section. Not only because I am a high risk mama with these twins but also because of my previous surgery- Duodenal Switch weight loss surgery done 9/4/09. We don't know if there is extensive scar tissue or bowels adhered to my scars so... Dr. Robertson will take his time as he is the one assisting my ob Dr. Berryman.
Our back up plan if their lungs are not ready at week 36 will be to do a cs the week of 12-10-12. We originally had 12-12-12 scheduled but since we are gonna attempt week 36 with the amniocentesis, the surgery scheduler had to remove my 2nd date since it's 'illegal' in the office to be scheduled twice. BOO! I really would love the date of 12-12-12- it's just sweet. LOL- don't judge :)
Now, these plans only will take place if I do not go into labor on my own. Which I really may not. It sure doesn't seem as if I will ever really know what a real contraction pain is- which is probably a great thing. Pregnancy is just crazy. It has been hard as a heck for me, however, it's not uncommon to find me rubbing my belly (massaging a baby one at a time) while smiling. The sensations of each baby are so unique with their movements. Mila is very gentile and docile. Sometimes hardly moving or just lightly tickling me with her toes. Where Sebastian (baby a) is my little break dancer, lol. He lets me rub his knees and feet as he slowly slides them across the palm of my hand. He moves a ton and he is very strong. He is certainly a mover and a shaker. When on monitor at the dr and l&d, we often have to turn down his monitor cause his movement makes so much loud noise as if he is saying "look at me, look at me!" It's really cute. (smiling mommy right here). Every time that I try to video record what I call an alien movement, they stop. Oh well, I have locked the memories in my brain.
Now, back to waiting for the calendar to progress forward.
We have the Christmas trees up and ready for them and their first Christmas! :)
(scar from open DS weight loss surgery)
